Talk Nerdy to Me®: Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Welcome to the Talk Nerdy to Me® FAQ page — where curiosity is hot, intelligence is sexy, and being unapologetically unmasked is the vibe.
Below are answers to the most common questions we get about our brand, our content, and the meaning behind the phrase “Talk Nerdy To Me® ”
What does “Talk Nerdy to Me” mean?
“Talk nerdy to me” is a playful twist on the classic phrase “Talk dirty to me.” It flips the script, turning intellect, passion, and deep-dive knowledge into a form of flirtation and empowerment. It celebrates people who embrace their inner nerd — whether that’s for science, fandoms, tech, gaming, or obscure historical facts.
It’s not just a phrase. It’s a mindset.
Who created TalkNerdyToMe.com?
TalkNerdyToMe.com (originally TalkNerdyToMeLover.com) was founded by Jen Friel in November of 2009.
As an unapologetically nerdy, (now diagnosed) neurodivergent female creator with a passion for storytelling, tech, and building human connections through humor, intelligence, and weird facts. It began as a blog and grew into a movement celebrating the intersection of tech culture, neurodiversity, and empowered expression.
Check out our press page … we’ve proudly been around the block. ;)
Is “Talk Nerdy to Me” just for nerds?
Heck no! While we absolutely celebrate nerds of all kinds, “Talk Nerdy to Me” is for anyone who:
* Loves learning or obsessing over niche interests
* Finds intelligence attractive
* Wants to embrace what makes them different
* Identifies as neurodivergent, awkward, curious, or wildly passionate
Whether you’re into D&D, data sets, or DIY obsessions — if you love what you love loudly, this space is for you.
Is “Talk Nerdy to Me” trademarked?
Yes! “Talk Nerdy to Me” is a protected brand, and TalkNerdyToMe.com is the official home of the movement. If you’ve seen the phrase elsewhere, that’s because it’s become a viral pop culture slogan — but this is the OG source where the meaning goes deeper than just a clever shirt slogan.
Why is “Talk Nerdy to Me” trending?
Because brains are hot. Over the years, the phrase “talk nerdy to me” has exploded in popularity thanks to memes, T-shirts, TikToks, and a cultural shift where being smart, different, and deeply into your interests is finally being celebrated.
Whether it’s in dating profiles, nerdcore music, or nerd-flavored Instagram content — this phrase is a cheeky way to say: “I like people who know stuff. Talk to me about what lights you up.”
What kind of content does TalkNerdyToMe.com create?
Our site covers:
* Neurodivergent perspectives (especially autism, ADHD, and synesthesia)
* Geek culture & fandoms
* Personal growth + awkward humor
* Body language decoding & psychology
* Nerdy dating advice
* Behind-the-scenes of pop culture obsessions
Basically, if it’s weird, wired, or wonderfully nerdy — we talk about it.
How can I “Talk Nerdy” to someone?
Here are a few ideas to woo someone the nerdy way:
* Compliment their brain before their body.
* Ask them to explain their favorite niche topic.
* Speak in Star Wars quotes or reference obscure RPG lore.
* Get enthusiastic about their enthusiasm — even if you don’t “get” it.
Pro tip: Authenticity > pretending to like Star Trek.
Is “Talk Nerdy to Me” just for nerds?
Whether you’re into D&D, data sets, or DIY obsessions — if you love what you love loudly, this space is for you.
Can I contribute to TalkNerdyToMe.com?
Yes! We’re always open to passionate guest writers, content collaborators, and nerdy creators who want to share their weird and wonderful POVs. If you’ve got a unique voice and something nerdy to say — let’s talk.
Reach out via our Contact Page or DM us on Instagram.
Is Talk Nerdy to Me just a phrase or part of a larger community?
It’s both! While “Talk Nerdy to Me” is a catchy phrase, it’s also grown into a community of proud nerds and neurodivergent creators who celebrate the beauty of being different. From blog posts to social content, from merch to meetups — this is a home for the ones who never quite fit in but always stood out.
Final Thoughts: Why “Talk Nerdy to Me” Matters
In a world that often tells us to tone it down, “Talk Nerdy to Me” is an invitation to turn it all the way up. It’s sexy, smart, inclusive, and loud about what it loves.
Because the nerdiest thing you can do… is be yourself.
Stay true, my friends.
Love,
your new friend, Jen Friel